3 Keys Ways To Growing Together

Having an exciting fling can be the beginning and the end of many relationships and such is the way of probabilities.

But if you do meet a like-minded soul who appreciates you and who you love also then here are 3 things which I believe are the most important aspects of a relationship that both of you need to grow together.

Financial Aspect

Despite all the Disney and Romance movies that have been out in society, money is still an important part of a relationship.

I am not talking simply about going after successful people and leeching off them to support your own lifestyle.

I am talking about how both parties perceive money, the importance it is has in your lives, and how you manage your money.

If you agree on most points with your partner about these key financial topics then things should be strong on this front.

This translates to parties not feeling taken advantage of and working together to reach pre-agreed upon goals.

However if either of you don't see eye to eye, then probably let things end. It is not because that both of you don't love each other but because finances in today's world is so important and you seeing your partner overspending or being thrifty will slowly breakdown the next relationship.

So please talk about it and be clear and be true to yourself. It might seem a bit daunting at first but imagine going for a fancy dinner or a cheap lunch, it will cause a barrier between you two.

Emotional Aspect

Yes this is important to have a solid and strong foundation.

This isn't just about understanding what your partner loves to do and how to make them happy and loved but to make sure that you know how to support them and help them feel secure and protected.

Understanding the good alongside the bad.

You never know a person if you only know the nice and shiny part of them so getting to the traumas and understanding the lasting effects is key to growing with that person.

Communicating Aspect

To make the previous 2 sections possible, you need to have a strong and consistent way to communicate. From the everyday to the key obstacles that life sometimes throws at a relationship.

Simply being able to communicate with your partner over any issue, small or big, bad or good, is a unique connection that shouldn't be taken likely.

It represents an a willingness to be open and vulnerable that doesn't happen with every person.

If you have that with somebody then treasure it because you will have that connection for the rest of your life.

But it is up to you to take the relationship to the next step.